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7 Day Invitation: Dream Reunions for the Grieving Heart

7 Days to Learn the skills you need to have a dream visitation with your loved one in spirit

June 20 - June 26, 2022

You might be in the pits of despair, walking that lonely dark abyss of grief and loss and you feel so much sorrow at the thought of never seeing your loved one again. Tormented by regret at words left unsaid…


What if you could get a chance to say those words, hug them again, hear them tell you they are ok? 

Imagine knowing that they are still around, and always will be.


This is a 7-day invitation to explore the possibility of reconnecting with your loved one in spirit through the healing power of a visitation dream.

This will be an immersive and transformative 7-day journey where I offer you the tools and techniques as well as proper step-by-step guidance so that you can master the skills you need to have a dream visitation with your loved one

This 7 Day Invitation = Science + Western Psychology + Ancient Wisdom  

You might not believe in the afterlife and that is fine. I am not asking you to believe anything, but I am inviting you to become a researcher of truth.
This goes beyond religion or belief systems. It is an invitation to investigate, to inquire. To become soft, flexible, open - and from this place, see what is possible.


Did you know that we spend a third of our lives sleeping? And that if you lived to 60 years old, you would have spent 20 years sleeping and years dreaming?


Imagine evolving your relationship with your deceased loved one so that you can spend some of this time with them through dreams?

Here is what you will learn in this free 7 day invitation...

I will be sharing with you my two-strand twist method for reconnection. were we twist strands of dreaming and grief work to build a bridge that will help us cross the gulf that separates us from our deceased loved ones.

Dream Gate 1: Priming

The Gulf - Unlocking the stories that separate you and your loved one

  • DAY 1: Grief in the mind; dream priming

  • DAY 2: Emotional love; dream recall / recording

Dream Gate 2: Bridge  Building

Bridging the Gulf - Releasing all that stands between you

  • DAY 3: The many faces ( dream incubation part 1)

  • DAY 4: Embracing wholeness ( dream incubation part 2)

  • DAY 5: Forgiveness & Release ( dream incubation part 3)

Dream Gate 3: Th e  Re union

Dream Visit - Meeting your loved one in a new way

  • DAY 6: Part of You

  • DAY 7: Threads of spirit

June 20 - June 26, 2022
  • 7 Daily videos that will guide you through a series of teaching principles

  • ​7 Daily practises to engage with the teachings together

  • ​3-4 "Ask My Anything" Facebook Lives to get real and raw on your grief journey and how you are engaging with the teachings

  • Online ​Community of people to share your heartbreak, breakthroughs, your insights and support each other in deepening into the principles and teachings;

  • Dream Visitation serve as a cheat sheet after the 7 days.

  • ​And many other secret goodies!

Please note that this might trigger your grief and its ok because you will be in a safe container where all of you is welcome - your sorrow, anger, pain…

June 20 - June 26, 2022

So... why am I sharing this right now?

Hi, I'm Ning Tendo!

I am no grief expert;

I am just an apprentice to grief.

- a woman who lost her mother.

A fellow traveller who has experienced the gut-wrenching depths of grief, the relentless heart shattering and has found a way through with a deep understanding of the terrain. 

The techniques I teach inside this 7-day invitation are the same ones I used to consciously induce a dream visitation from my mama two years ago just 2 weeks after she died.



They are the same techniques I have spent over 8 years and thousands of dreams later perfecting which has led me to have many more dream visitations with my mother (both lucid and non-lucid) as well as with other loved ones who have transitioned.


They are the same techniques I taught to people as part of my 8-week lucid dreaming workshop at Columbia university’s wellness center.

This 7 Day invitation is essentially 8 years in the making.

But it will only take you 7 days or less to learn the skills you need to reconnect with your deceased loved one.

If you are really struggling through your grief journey, and at times feel completely overwhelmed, lost, full of anxiety and feel that no one understands what you are going through, THIS 7 DAY INVITATION IS FOR YOU.


I’ve NEVER taught these dream visitations strategies before and decided to do it now because I have seen so many people wracked by loss and so I wanted to help people who are going through the deep abyss of grief gain some nourishment and healing for their pain through a dream visitation from their loved one in spirit.


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My mama & I

It is my hope that by the end of 7 days, you will have all the skills you need to reunite with your deceased loved one in a dream not as a way to negate the deep pain you are feeling from their physical absence, but as a way to balance the loss with a new opportunity to reconnect that will provide you with nourishment, consolation, inspiration and peace during your grieving process.


See you there?


Much Love


June 20 - June 26, 2022

7 Day Invitation Hosted by Ning Tendo


  • M.A in Psychology, Spirituality & Mind-Body Practice, Columbia University.

  • Shamanic Breathwork facilitator (400 hours)

  • Dream Yogi ( Western Psychology/Jungian Dream Analysis & Tibetan Yogas of Dreams - 7 years)

  • Spiritual Healer, Columbia University Healing Research Study: The Role of Mental Imagery Within the Practice of Spiritual Healing (1 year) -

  • Advanced Spiritual Healing & Healing Constellations (180 Hours)

  • Spiritual Healing Constellations: Family, Incarnational, Organizational, Spiritual (400 hours; 18-month training)

  • Grief guide through conscious dreaming


"Wait... but I am an atheist and i don't belief in the afterlife or stuff like this


Whether you believe in an afterlife or not, there’s no denying that a Dream Reunion can bring comfort, emotional closure, peace and clarity to those suffering loss and bereavement.


The Dream visitations that I’ve heard being shared and have researched all have similar qualities in the sense that they were healing, transformative and helped bring peace and solace to the grieving dreamer. 

But don't believe me, check out the words of McNara who is an atheist and had dream reunions with his parents 6 months after they passed. 

The bottom line is that I am not asking you to believe me. I am inviting you to be skeptical of your skepticism and approach this as a scientific research project. There is no conflict with whatever your religious beliefs are.

"Ok, but i don't dream! How is this supposed to work?"


Actually you do!  Everyone dreams. You might just not be remembering your dreams


Did you know that we spend a third of our lives sleeping? And that if you lived to 60 years old, you would have spent 20 years sleeping and 10 years dreaming? Imagine evolving your relationship with your deceased loved one so that you can continue your relationship with them?

You’re about to learn methods that you can use over and over and over again to reconnect with your loved one and to evolve your relationship with them.


The level of commitment and dedication you bring to our days together can absolutely transform the trajectory of your dreams and life…

What people who have had dream vistations are saying (experiences)


My guilt is almost entirely gone

“My guilt is almost entirely gone. I truly believe he came to me, his first born of seven, because he knew how badly I felt. Hearing his voice telling me that he was not upset was the only thing that would have helped alleviate my guilt that had”


Father of Analytical Psychology

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“Six weeks after his death my father appeared to me in a dream. Suddenly he stood before me and said that he was coming back from his holiday. He had made a good recovery and was now coming home. I thought he would be annoyed with me for having moved into his room. But not a bit of it!...It was an unforgettable experience, and it forced me for the first time to think about life after death.” — Carl Jung

June 20 - June 26, 2022
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